Randoms
I woke up late this morning. Well actually I woke up early, then napped until about 11.
During the night, some random had msg’d me, wanting to know if I wanted to have coffee or lunch. Not having anything better to do today, I thought ‘Why not’, and headed into the city after sorting out the where and whens.
I went to Dragon Boat on Lonsdale, which you can always get into for Yum Cha, even without a booking. I call it ‘consistently average’. Nothing spectacular, but it tastes ok and doesn’t make you shit.
So this random turns up a bit late, blaming the train or tram. That’s fair enough.. they’re never on time. Connex, that is.
We ordered a few things, and chatted a bit. Seemed ok, until the conversation got around to ex’s. I mean that was ok, until I asked about his. I think some shrink would have paid him to have a session, coz he came out with some amazingly weird ideas on why he’d only had 2 rships and why they failed etc.
I started noticing a common flaw in his arguments, it was all ‘the guy did’ or ‘the guy didn’t’. I pointed out that out of both his relationships and subsequent attempts, he got out exactly what he put into them. Nothing.
Which is exactly true. If you expect everything to be served up to you on a silver platter like the world owes you something, you may as well do yourself and everyone else a favour and go die already. The world doesn’t need any more people like that.
Needless to say being told the truth (raw, straightforward, without sugar coating – i’m very good at that) didn’t go down well, as he wanted to hear the pandering and bullshit. Silence followed, which was fine as it was time for the bill. Split 50/50 (obviously initiated by me), and then parted company.
Next!
Now i’m off to a friend’s housewarming party. Should be much more fun! 
08.Feb.09 
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